The Winter Threshold: Three Questions for the Woman Who is Ready to Un-Become

As we stand at the threshold of 2026, I invite you to put down the 'Success Script' for a moment.

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Liz Stubbs

12/29/20251 min read

tea light on brown surface
tea light on brown surface

We often treat the New Year as a time for 'adding'—new goals, new habits, new pressures. But in Wayfinding, we recognize that you cannot find your North if your hands are too full of the old map.

As we stand at the threshold of 2026, I invite you to put down the 'Success Script' for a moment. Instead of asking what you want to achieve next year, ask yourself these three somatic questions:

  1. What am I carrying that isn't mine? (Identify the obligations you’ve taken on to please others or maintain an image).

  2. Where in my life does my breath feel shallow? (Pinpoint the areas—work, relationships, habits—that trigger a 'functional freeze' or constriction).

  3. If I stopped performing today, who would be left standing in the room?

The 'Un-becoming' is the most courageous work you will ever do. It is the clearing of the land before the new growth begins.

Before you click away, take one deep breath. Notice where your feet are touching the floor. You are here. You are safe. You are beginning.

Are you currently spinning in your own cockpit?

You don't have to navigate blindly and alone. If your nervous system needs an immediate sanctuary breath today, grab the Somatic First Aid Kit ($19), step into the Audio Apothecary ($9/mo), or expand your vision with the Sure-Footed Sight Deck ($33). A dedicated portion of every purchase goes directly to alfalfa mash, veterinary care, and sanctuary restoration for Gus and Snickers.

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