The Story of the Return
How a single photograph, a barndominium, and a wild acre of land became a map home.
The Hider
For years, I played small.
I was the steady one behind the scenes—supporting other people’s dreams, producing their stories, and keeping my own light politely dimmed.
On paper, life looked good: creative work, a roof, bills paid. But inside, there was a whisper I couldn’t ignore: is this all there is?
I’d become a background character in my own frame.
The Fracture
During a street-photography workshop, my lens caught a reflection I didn’t expect—myself, in torment, not pretty, not polished, but true.
That image became the start of a project called FRACTURED.
Looking at it later, I saw the truth: my energy was split between earning and creating, duty and desire.
That picture cracked something open. Once I saw it, I couldn’t un-see it.
That picture was the first coordinate of my own Un-becoming. It was the moment I realized that being 'The Rock' for everyone else had left me crumbled inside.


The Dismantling
Comfort began to feel like a cage.
So I followed an unexplainable tug—a quiet yes that led me to a stretch of wild acreage far from the city.
I’d never built anything beyond a storyboard, but I became my own general contractor and raised a barndominium from the soil up.
I wasn't just building a house; I was un-ravelling the scripts of the 'Walled City.' Every board nailed was a somatic lesson in Creative Resilience. I was learning that I could trust my own North even when the map was blank.


The Re-Membering
Nature became my teacher.
The fallow seasons showed me that stillness is fertile.
The seedlings taught patience; the storms, resilience.
Out here I began to understand that home isn’t a place—it’s an energy.
An inner rhythm you can return to anytime.
That was my re-birthday—the reunion of all the parts I’d once hidden or hurried past.


The Birth of Soul North
From that re-membering came Soul North Wayfinding. It is the distillation of twenty-five years of leadership, communication, and deep-soul recovery into a single, living compass.
We no longer look at life as a project to be managed, but as a terrain to be walked through three essential phases:
The Spark (Un-clench): Moving out of functional freeze and back into the body.
The Map (Un-ravel): Shedding the outgrown identities to see fresh possibilities.
The Guide (Un-become): Leading and living from a place of unshakeable, authentic presence.
The Invitation
If you’ve outgrown your old coordinates…
If you sense there’s a truer rhythm calling you home…
If you’re ready to live aligned instead of divided...
Come walk this path.
Your compass is waiting.
SOUL NORTH Wayfinding
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You’ve spent a lifetime holding it all together. Now, the house is quiet (or the office is dark), and you’re finally meeting yourself. Let’s make sure you like who you find. Home isn’t somewhere you arrive; it’s the energy you return to when you are aligned with your truth.
